When you make a mistake today and begin to react to the situation – ask yourself these questions:
What are the facts, and what is fiction? How can I learn from the situation, and how could I make it worse?
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“Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.” (Charles Swindoll)
If you really mean it, greet those you love with an outward expression that proves it.
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“The churches in the province of Asia send you greetings. Aquila and Priscilla greet you warmly in the Lord, and so does the church that meets at their house. 20 All the brothers and sisters here send you greetings. Greet one another with a holy kiss.” (1 Corinthians 16:19-20)
When you feel disrespected, hurt, or mistreated today – redirect your focus to God’s view of the other person. Based on His Word, describe God’s perspective.
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“The arrogant are attacking me, O God; a band of ruthless men seeks my life— men without regard for you. 15 But you, O Lord, are a compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness.” (Psalm 86:14-15)
Spend time in prayer today for someone who is ‘tough to love.’ This may be someone who obviously dislikes you, or someone who has wronged you.
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“If you love only those people who love you, will God reward you for that…If you greet only your friends, what’s so great about that? Don’t even unbelievers do that? But you must always act like your Father in heaven.” (Matthew 5:46-47)
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Commit this passage to memory: “Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3 because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. 4 Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. 5 If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him. 6 But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt, because he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind.” (James 1:2-6)
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Every time you are confronted with anger today, commit to this 3-part program for peace:
1 -Don’t speak, except to God in prayer. If you are angry with another person, ask God to bless them.
2 -Do everything in your power to seek peace with this person, while maintaining integrity in your principles.
3 – Leave that which you can’t control with God.
“Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. 15 Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. 16 Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited. 17 Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. 18 If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. 19 Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: ‘It is mine to avenge; I will repay,’ says the Lord. 20 On the contrary: ‘If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.’ 21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.” (Romans 13:14-21)
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When confronted with anger, what are your options? List 3 ways you can respond.
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“Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor, for we are all members of one body. 26 ‘In your anger do not sin’: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, 27 and do not give the devil a foothold.” (Ephesians 4:25-27)
Consider the passage below. How can anger affect our physical health?
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“A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones.” (Proverbs 14:30)
Identify 5 things that make you prone to anger.
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“Mockers stir up a city, but the wise turn away anger.” (Proverbs 29:8)
“A man is about as big as the things that make him angry” (Winston Churchill)
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Commit this passage to memory: “For God did not give us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of power, of love and of self-discipline.” (2 Timothy 1:7)
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